The earlier days of this blog ended up being a chronicle of our infertility story. Here is our timeline of where we started and how God answered our prayers:
January 2010: Began birth control, very low doses of Loestrin or Junel FE (Age 36)
March 2010: Married! (Age 36)
July 2011: Went off the pill. We weren’t trying nor preventing, just letting nature take it course. (Age 37)
November 2011: Period was 2 weeks late, but there was no pregnancy. Went in for a sonogram: small cyst on my ovary but nothing significant.
December 2011 – July 2012: Regularly irregular periods. My cycle would range from 45 days one month to 28 days the next. It basically bounced from long-cycle to short-cycle over the next 7 months. Progressively, the span between long and short got smaller and smaller until it was close to normal (31-34 days) by July. (Age 38)
August 2012: Realized that nature wasn’t taking its course! Began using Clear Blue Fertility Monitor.
October 2012: Slight spotting on CD28. Took a test a week later and got a BFP! (Age 38)
November 2012: First sonogram at 7 weeks showed a heart beat, but it was slightly slow; the fetal pole was slightly small, and there was an enlarged yolk sack. This is an sign of an almost inevitable miscarriage. I shared our pregnancy with a handful of good friends and prayer warriors. We prayed for a miracle, but two weeks later, there was no heartbeat.
December 2012: I miscarried naturally. Doctor told us to keep trying; if we weren’t pregnant by the spring, he would refer us to an RE.
January – June 2013: Period returned to normal. We were trying using the Clear Blue again, but no pregnancy. I went to my OB in June for my annual, and he referred us to an RE. (Age 39)
July 2013: Made appointment with RE for end of August.
August 2013: First appointment with RE (who is also a miscarriage expert). Everything seemed normal. He felt I just needed a ‘little’ help, not a lot. Was able to start me on Clomid that day. He told us to use the Clear Blue OPK and not the Clear Blue Fertility Monitor. Instructed us to wait for the ‘smiley face’ and then ‘fool around’ for 3 day in a row. (This is different than what we had been doing. We had been going every other day once we hit ‘high fertility’ to ‘peak fertility’ with CBFM.)
September 2013: Sonogram showed an egg ready to launch. We followed the doctor’s orders. The follow-up sonogram showed that I did ovulate. Got a BFN on DPO 12. Had spotting on DPO 12, 14, 16. Took pregnancy tests on all of those days and got BFN. Took another test on DPO 19 and it was a BFP! (Age 39)
September – October 2013:
*First sonogram showed good size, placement and implantation. Blood work showed that all hormones levels were great, including progesterone.
*Second sonogram (around 7 weeks) showed no fetal pole. If we were off by a few days, that would explain it; there was a 50/50 chance this was a viable pregnancy. Once again, we rallied the prayer troops and started praying for another miracle. We went to the pastor and elders of our church to be prayed over and anointed with oil, as the book of James in the Bible says.
*Third sonogram showed a faint heartbeat and a fetal pole measuring at 6 weeks (I was about 8); there was a 95% chance I would lose this one, too. RE ordered genetic testing and bloodwork for me and J, anticipating a miscarriage and getting a head-start on the miscarriage testing.
*Fourth sonogram showed no growth and no heartbeat.
November 2013: Waited to see if I would miscarry naturally. It did not happen. Was prescribed misoprostol (the abortion pill) to force a miscarriage. First round did nothing at all. Second round resulted in an enormous amount of pain and bleeding. However, I did not even pass the sack. Ended up having a D&C later that week. Follow up appointment after D&C showed surgery went well.
December 2013: Met with RE again, post-miscarriage. The plan was to get to the bottom of my miscarriages. Genetic bloodwork came back fine for both of us. Gave about 10 vials of blood. Had a water sonogram; no abnormalities or fibroids or cysts inside my uterus.
January 2014: Got test results back. One test was borderline, another was positive for a blood-thickening auto-immune issue. Given my history of 2 miscarriages, it was enough for my doctor to take notice. As a result, he put me on baby aspirin and will give me something stronger if I get pregnant. Told us to try on our own for a month or two. If not, come in again on CD 3. My guess is that Clomid and and IUI will follow.
March 2014: No pregnancy resulted from trying naturally. We returned to the RE. The doctor put me on Clomid, a stronger dose than the first time, 100mg. An IUI was scheduled for this cycle. We weren’t exactly textbook in following the instructions. I wasn’t surprised that it was a BFN this time.
April 2014: IUI#2. Resulted in a BFN. Our numbers were better and our timing was better (the next day after the surge; last time, we had to wait another day because they are closed on Sundays). They also offered us an additional IUI the next day because our numbers were a little low. However, in spite of this, we still had a BFN.
May 2014: IUI#3. Numbers were okay; they gave us the option of coming in again for an additional IUI this cycle. However, my insurance only covered IUIs, lifetime. This last IUI really counted for 4 of the 6, since we had 2 last time. I opted not to have a second one for this cycle, which would leave us with only one remaining.
June 2014: IUI#3 was a fail. We changed up the meds for IUI #4. I started on Gonadotropins, 225 mg for 4 days, reduced down to 150 mg for 3 days. Had a trigger shot to stimulate ovulations. My eggs looked great- about 10 ready to go. My RE said I had the fertility of a 30-year-old. On the day of the IUI, there were other issues, and success was a long-shot. We had an IVF consult the next day, just in case. I was in pain after the IUI (ovary hyper-stimulation) for about a week. My period came a few days early. Met with my RE and we planned for IVF in July.
July 2014: Began birth control pills for IVF on June 30th and officially began the IVF process. Birth control pills for about 2 weeks. Then, the injections started – Follistim 225mg, Menopur 1ml, daily. About a week in, we added Ganarelix as well. Egg development on target. Retrieval occurred on July 31st with 22 eggs retrieved, 19 fertilized, and 17 embryos. Began taking Crinone 8% gel cream (progesterone), Estrace (Estradiol), and Doxycyline upon retrieval. Continuing to take baby aspirin (was off it a few days before retrieval) and pre-natal vitamins.
August 2014: Retrieval scheduled for August 5th, Day 5 Blastocyst transfer. Two embryos transferred, 9 frozen. We got our first positive beta on August 14th, 9d5dt – Beta 182! Second beta test 2 days later – 468. Started lovenox right away, and went off baby aspirin. Continuing with estrace and progesterone. First sonogram showed we are pregnant with a singleton – just on embryo ‘took.’
September 2014: Heard the heartbeat @ 6w5d, measuring 7w1d. Got a surprise at our 8w sonogram – Identical mono-di twins!!!! Graduated from my fertility doctor and transferred back to my OB. Went off estrace. Had consult with high risk doctor due to multiples and my age.
October 2014: Went off progesterone at 12 weeks. Made it to 13 weeks successfully. Never gotten this far before! Baby A and Baby B both doing great! Announced to coworkers, students and made it ‘Facebook Official’ at 12w6d – on October 15th, Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day – remembering our 2 in heaven and celebrating the pregnancy of their two siblings! Officially transferred care to a MFM for a high risk pregnancy. Sonograms scheduled for every 2 weeks, every week at week 32. Delivery scheduled for no later than 37 weeks.
April 2, 2015: 37 weeks, 1 day – our beautiful, rainbow babies arrived via C-section (A was head down, B was breech) : Michael Robert (6 lb, 4 oz) and James Anthony (5 lb, 12oz) made their appearance and changed our lives forever.
Infertility Journey: Officially Over.
Thank you, Jesus.
Jenn says
I’m so sorry for your losses. Glad to hear that your RE is doing an RPL panel on you. Hopefully it will provide you with some answers. xoxo
Thanks so much. The online support has been a huge, huge help! Likewise, I am so sorry for yours as well. Unimaginable is the right word, and I can only try to imagine what you have gone through. My heart truly goes out to you in your healing journey. Really glad to have connected with you! 🙂
I’m glad to have found you too!
When are you anticipating getting the results? Were you also tested for the thrombophilia panel?
I called today. The results are in, but the doctor hasn’t reviewed them yet. He should call Saturday or I’ll have another consult next week. I’m not sure if I was tested for the thrombophilia panel…..what is that related to? I can definitely ask at my f/u appointment.
My heart just breaks as I read your journey and all you have gone through. I just want to encourage you that God is able to do this, no matter how hopeless it seems. My husband and I struggled for 12.5 years with infertility, at which time, God sent us our own, sweet baby boy. He is now 13 years old, all glory to God! If you care to read our testimony, you may read it here: http://amateurnester.blogspot.com/2014/01/on-journey-with-cheryl.html
God’s peace be with you as you wait upon your own miracle! Love, Cheryl
Hi Cheryl, Thanks so much for your heartfelt comments. It is definitely hard not to give into the feelings of hopelessness, but appropriately so, God gave me the word ‘hope’ for this year. I definitely will be by to see your story! I love hearing testimonies like this! Thanks so much for your encouragement, sister! 🙂
So sorry for your loss! We just experienced our first miscarriage last week. My husband is in the service and he had to come home on emergency leave. It was such a sad experience. I received a lot of support from friends that had the same experience in their past. I would say not to give up and to continue to pray. God gave Ana a baby when she thought she was sterile. =) All in His time.
Thank you for reaching out, Suleyka. I am so sorry for your loss. It is devastating, no matter how/when it happens. My heart and prayers go out to you. This can be a tough journey, but you are right…it’s all in His timing!! Hugs!! xo
I love how you write… such hope through trials. As always, my prayers are with you!
p.s. I think you meant to put January 2014 at the end! 😉
Thank you so much!!! And thank you for the head’s up! Fixed (and updated!)
xo friend!
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I love your picture! Why have I not noticed it before? Is it new??? So glad to put a face with a name, friend! 🙂
I did just change my picture!! Changed my whole page around!!! ☺️ thank you!!
I will definitely take a look!!!
Just came across your blog. I have seen your posts before.. I think it was from a reblog of another blogger. So I decided to click over here and look. I think we’re about the same age, so I paid even closer attention to your journey. We both got married later in our life (mine at 36, almost 37, a year after your wedding). I am so sorry for all the heartaches that you had to endure. My journey has been over 2 years with 4 IVF cycles (1 was converted to IUI), 1 transfer, and 1 chemical pregnancy. It’s been tough to be on this journey knowing that age is also a factor. I will follow your journey and will root for you.
Thanks for coming by, Isabelle! I am so sorry for your losses on this journey. Ugh. It is so hard and painful…the hoping, the possibilities – and then the letdowns…it’s brutal. Yes, I totally relate with the age fear. I’m 40 now, so I know what the ‘odds’ say. I’ve really had to come to peace with the fact that God truly is in control. If it is meant to be, it will. I will be following you on your journey, too – and praying and cheering for you! We are lucky to live in a day and age with some much technology on our side. Hugs and prayers!!
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We are so blessed to have gotten our happy ending. Thank you for reading!