Hi, I’m Kate and I’m so glad you’re here!
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About Me
Hi, again! So glad you’re here! π
A little bit about me: I was a high school English and Bible teacher in a Christian school for 15 years until the birth of my twin boys in April 2015. Currently, Iβm a certified interior decorator while running my blog and Etsy shop – and homeschooling our sons.π€ͺπ
I lived on Long Island most of my life, but my husband (married in 2010), our boys, and our 4 cats relocated to East Tennessee in 2018 (best decision ever).
Fun fact: something of a late bloomer, I didn’t get married until I was 36, and I had our boys when I was 41. So, first-time-mom in my 40s! Huge learning curve and life adjustment!
Iβm a bit of recovering perfectionist and worrier. I love the outdoors – kayaking, hiking, mountain biking – and I used to be a really fun and adventurous person before I had my boys! However, as the boys get bigger, fingers crossed, the fun and adventure will return!
I like to travel, write, eat Indian food, and I love to sleep (again, pre-children – but I still am fond of all those things!).
I hate yard-work and I’m a terrible cook. Well, that’s not entirely true. When I was working full-time, yes to both. But now that I’m home, I would say that I tolerate yard-work and I’m a passable cook.
I am a compulsive organizer when given the freedom, and I’m obsessed with purging clutter. I can be absent-minded, I’m getting better at multi-tasking, and I’m also a little clumsy (runs in my family).
My mind is always busy, and I’m always coming up with new goals and projects to keep me motivated and inspired; I am a huge advocate of being a life-long learner, and if I had my way, Iβd be a career student.
I LOVE missions and have had the honor of serving on over 20 short-term trips, with about 15 of those being overseas. My first trip was to Africa when I was 23, and it changed my life.
Here’s the real core of who I am: I believe that the only fulfilling life is one that is lived for something bigger than myself, something that will outlast me. I believe that βSomethingβ – really, SomeONE – is Jesus. My own story is too small to live for, and I love being a part of God’s Big Story. And when Iβm in sync with Him, Iβm at my happiest and my best. He’s won my heart, and what matters to Him matters to me.
About My Blogging Journey and A Hundred Affections
Here’s the “story behind the story” of my blog:
In 2009, my sister (The Girl Creative) suggested blogging to me when I was planning my wedding, thus ‘One Girl’s Journey to the Altar‘ was born. I had that blog for a good year and a half, but the adjustments of a new marriage left little time for blogging. I let that one a die a slow death, and then picked up blogging again in 2012 with “This Side of Eden;” that one died a quick death. I was in the middle of one of my most stressful – and worst- years of teaching, and I was a too ambitious trying to kick it off when I did.
Later that same year, I had my first miscarriage and started to blog again at A Hundred Affections (at Blogspot), but only for a short time. In the months that followed, God told me to quit my 2nd job and focus on writing (about what, I wasn’t – and still am not – quite sure! Work in progress!). After procrastinating, squirming and pretending I didn’t hear, I finally obeyed and the current A Hundred Affections was born in July 2013.
At the time, I was in the middle of a very difficult miscarriage and infertility journey. The blog evolved into a real-time play-by-play of our infertility struggles, and I believe it was what it was supposed to be at the time – for me and for the other women I connected with.
In summer of 2014, I finally became pregnant with our twin boys, via IVF. The blog slowly took a backseat during the pregnancy and the boys’ first 2 years. In the summer of 2016, I relaunched the blog (you can read about the relaunch here), which is how you ended up here!
My goal here is to inspire moms who are running the show at home – trying to balance faith, family, home, and health. Moms who need a little encouragement, a spiritual boost, practical tips for kids, healthy recipes, ideas for kids, DIY projects, home decor- everything that falls under the category of being a mom and homemaker.
About the Name “A Hundred Affections”
If you’re curious about the title, here’s the story:
It comes from the poem “Song of Myself” by Walt Whitman:
“The press of my foot to the earth springs a hundred affections.”
I fell in love with this line during my first year of teaching. It perfectly captured the idea of there being something meaningful to discover with every experience in life. It’s all important and it all matters.
I really believe we are all just doing the best that we can to juggle and negotiate life. We are all trying to find balance. While these ‘hundred affections’ are what make life worthwhile, they can also leave us with our heads spinning as we try to manage it all. But they are all gifts from God in our lives and we owe it to ourselves – and to Him – to be good stewards of those gifts.
I don’t have it all figured out, but I hope we can do you some good here. π
Rose says
That is a great ‘About’ π
Kate says
Thanks, Rose! And thanks for coming by! π
Valerie says
It’s so nice to meet you!
I am very sorry for your loss; we have three babies in heaven, so I’m right there with you. xo And we’re ttc! Not exactly easy this time because I am still breastfeeding our toddler, and apparently b/f’ing really does make good birth control! π
“My mind is always busy and Iβm always coming up with new goals and projects to keep me motivated and inspired; I am a huge advocate of being a life-long learner, and if I had my way, Iβd be a career student.” – We are VERY much alike! And I am (as you know) an organizer!! π
I look forward to following your blog. π
P.S. Where can I find you on FB?
Kate says
Thanks for sharing your story with me. I am always blessed and encouraged to find kindred spirits out there!! π I’ll let you know about the FB page…my sister is helping me set one up for my blog! Have a great day! I’m sure we’ll be in touch! π
Valerie says
My daughter had to help me create my FB acct and page! lol
lifeonwry.com says
Thanks for stopping by my blog. Looking forward to checking yours out!
Initiator ;-) says
Nice to view your Blog…
Great Honor for a teacher of English as well as bible Teacher…!
May you always guide the children for good way..!
Kate says
Thank you so much for your kind words and stopping by! I am blessed up do what I do!
Initiator ;-) says
Kate!
you warmly welcome…!
Teaching is a holy profession as well as teachers are very soft hearted…I respect a lot teachers…!
Live Long…:-)
Cheers!
opticalreflex says
Kate, I too have felt the pull of old west towns,but it doesn’t stop there, I’m a sucker for old, abandoned lock-boxes of history; towns, buildings, cars, trucks…anything that tells me it has a story. The worst part of it is they keep those stories to themselves. How often I have tried to reach into the past to try to find out the story of that old car, or house, or school, hoping I could catch a glimpse of the lives it touched. Was there love, adventure, family. Did people make love there? Did death touch it? How did it get to be abandoned and forgotten? Sometimes I feel like the answers are just out of reach, but out of reach they stay, leaving only imaginings to fill in the gaps. You’re doing nice work here, keep it up.
Kate says
Thanks so much for coming by! I agree…I love to know the stories behind everything! I think that is the fun of being a writer…if we can’t find out the facts, we can put the pieces together and create our own stories. I kept thinking that walking through Bodie…who lived here, who owned these items, these shoes on the floor, the clothed draped on the bed…who walked down the dirt path and into this house everyday…
I agree 100%!
Thanks so much for your thoughtful comment!
runningonsober says
Hi Kate, Figured I’d drop by over here and say hi! You have a great about page. I smiled at the mention of all the kitties. I’m a big time animal lover–I have a cat, two dogs, and even cows and donkeys. Nice to meet you! ~ Christy
AnnaLinnehan says
Hello Katie,
Love your “Abou Me” page!
Want to thank you for stopping by my blog and liking “Meet My Friend Brandye Dague.” I feel very blessed to have her as a friend…
Blessings π
Kate says
Thank you! I will definitely be back to check out what you are doing there!!!
sassyray says
WOW! What an awesome “About Me” page! So many things you said describe me to a tee as well, but I’m no where near as eloquent as you are! I must rethink my “about me” page now!
I’m sorry about your miscarriage and wish you the best as you continue trying!
Kate says
Thank you! I love finding kindred spirits out here in the blog world – you know, the ones where you say, ‘we’d be friends in real life!’ Thanks for coming by! π
Simple Mum says
Thanks for leaving a lovely comment on my blog! You write great posts! Look forward to more of them!
Danielle says
Best of luck to you! Thank you for following me and my journey, I will continue to follow yours as well!
NicoleNA says
Nice to meet you, Kate. I came over from a comment you made on Blogher. I think I’m here to stay:)
Kate says
Hi Nicky! Thanks soo much for coming! You are my first friend from Blogher! I stopped by yours as well and I love what you are doing there! I will definitely be following! π
NicoleNA says
Thanks Kate. I’m glad to be the first:) Have a lovely weekend.
Valerie says
Thanks for joining in the party this week! Stop by to see who else was recommended. http://atlantamomofthree.wordpress.com/2013/08/23/rockin-recommendations-august-23rd/
adelineoh says
Kate, I’m nominating you for :http://adelineohvelarde.wordpress.com/2013/08/26/the-sunshine-award/
Kate says
Thanks so much, Adeline! I’ll check it out this week! π
Diane Reid says
This is great, I smiled all the way through it. I will stand with you in faith for your child, the one you will hold in your arms this side of heaven. I’m glad you found me and I found you.
Kate says
Thank you so much! Prayers mean so much! π I know God hears! God bless you, friend!
mithriluna says
I love your last paragraph – so beautifully expressed. Also, I am a fellow zumba-lover. π God bless you.
Kate says
Thank you so much! I appreciate your kind comment! And so glad to find another zumba-er! Definitely is my outlet!!! π
susmysebastian says
A wonderful way to describe who and what you are!!
Keep going Kate ..prayers!!
Kate says
Thank you for your sweet comments – and prayers!
accamv says
I like your blog. Most people go through changes when they visit Africa. A lot more can be done there, people should not be going through needless suffering like they are currently. Africa has much more to offer.
Kate says
Thank you for coming by! I absolutely agree. I feel very humbled and honored that I have been able to visit AFrica 4x – and hopefully be a blessing to the people there!
lesleyaraymond says
Hey there! I didn’t have an email address for you so I thought I’d reply to your comment on guest posting on bytheporchlight.com here π I’m really interested in hearing about your journey with clean eating! Would you like to write about that? Maybe share a recipe or two?
Kate says
Sorry about that! I keep meaning to add a contact page. It’s ahundredaffections@gmail.com. I think I can come up with something! Shoot me an email and we will chat! Thanks for the opportunity!
stacilys says
Hi there Kate. Just happened to drop by and glad I did. We have a lot in common. Love the part about being a “chronic dieter” – hahahahaha. I must confess that I am too. I mean, I eat super healthy (most of the time), but when I get into a rut sometimes and start with the ‘I’ve definitely gained weight’ syndrome, my hubby automatically jokes around saying, ‘ok, just diet again’. And I too am happiest and best when I’m living in the centre of God’s will. Blessings to you Kate and I look forward to receiving your future posts. =)
Kate says
Hi Staci! Thanks so much for dropping by! I am glad you found me as well, and I look forward to checking out your blog also. I’ve found that it is really a cool thing to find so many kindred spirits on here. π Happy New Year! (Hope I made the right assumption by writing ‘Staci’???)
stacilys says
HAHAHAHAHA! Yes, it’s Staci. Looking forward to know you better as well. Blessings =)
stacilys says
Hey there Kate. Just stopping by to let you know that I have nominated you for “The Versatile Blogger Award”. You can find the rules here: http://stacilys.wordpress.com/?p=749
Blessings=)
Staci
stacilys says
Hi Kate. Supposedly there was a problem with publishing the post and the link in broken. It’s up and running now so you can see it at http://stacilys.wordpress.com/
Blessings =)
Kate says
Thanks so much, Staci! Truly honored!!! π So glad we have connected!!
stacilys says
Me too. And you’re very welcome.
Blessing=)
melissamummery says
It’s great to “meet” you Katie!
Kate says
Thanks, Melissa! Looking forward to more of the same! π
Blog do Γbvio - Manoel says
Kate, i’m a Brazilian ( Christian ). I read that you live in Brazil some years ago. Sorry, but my English (write) is very bad. I understand all and will follow your blog. I like very much all you have over here. Very good blog!
Pleased to meet you,
Manoel – Brazil
Kate says
Thank you so much for your note and for coming by! I love coming across other Christians! I was in Brazil in 2007, working with YWAM in Porto Velho. An amazing time!! Very nice to ‘meet’ you! π
Kendra says
Love getting to know you! Stopping by from The SITS Girls.
Kate says
Thanks for coming by, Kendra! π This has a been a fun time on the blog hook-up!
Julie says
Stopping by (increeeeedibly late) from the SITS challenge. Having fun hopping around your blog – hope you have a fantastic weekend!
Kate says
Thanks for coming by, Julie!! π
Brennen Johnson says
Hey! I started following your blog a few weeks back. I like your stuff. This is a great About to and I am nominating you for the Liebster Award just because I think your blog is unique and deserves a looksy and some more follows. I hope you keep blogging and God bless. π http://godsbrainchild.wordpress.com/2014/03/20/the-liebster-award-i-got-nominated/
Kate says
Wow, Brennen – thank you so much! I do not take comments like that for granted – nor nominations! I really appreciate this, and I definitely will follow up! Looking forward to checking out your blog, too! Thanks so much for the encouragement and support! π
Jennifer Stidham says
Hi there! I’m hoping to send some sunshine your way by nominating you for The Sunshine Award! Your blog has been inspiring and encouraging to me. Thanks for sharing your story! Just click on this link to see what you need to do, if you choose to accept this award: http://wp.me/p2QS1L-au. Hope you have a sunshiney day! π
Kate says
Thanks so much, Jennifer!!! Your comments and nominations mean so much to me! I would definitely love to join in! I so appreciate your kind words and encouragement! π
Anniemation Floe says
Hello Katie!
I have nominated you for the Beautiful Blogger Award! I find your posts inspiring & they are always a pleasure to read! The “Accept vs Reject” lies in your hands.
For more information, you can visit this link… http://anniemationfloe.wordpress.com/2014/04/09/beautiful-blogger-award-acceptance/
Thanks,
Annie
Kate says
Thank you so much!!! I will definitely check it out and ‘accept’! I don’t take this lightly! Thank you again, friend!
awax1217 says
I was a teacher so I can empathize with you. Most of my blog comes from classroom situations. Some were great and some not so great. If you spot anything on my blog you would like to use in the classroom I would be honored. Some is for seventh grade but make sure you get approval. On having the child of your dreams my wife and I wish you well and pray that it does occur. I did write a blog on how I met my wife and I think you would like it. It is called Love With a Stamp. Give it a read if you wish and let me know what you think.
Kate says
Thanks so much for coming by! I will definitely be by to check out your blog. I love connecting with other teachers out there! Thanks so much for your prayers as well. Means so much! I’ll be popping over soon! π
Professor VJ Duke says
Great to meet you! You know, running tortures me too. It’s just dadblamery, huh?
Kate says
LOL. On a rare occasion, I ‘like’ it but…rarely! Thanks for coming by! π
Professor VJ Duke says
Yes! On the rare occasion. I think I agree. It’s still scary usually, though.
spiritbabycomehome says
Hello! I hope all is continuing to go well with pregnancy #3! I have nominated you for a One Lovely Blog Award. My post with your nomination, the guidelines, etcetera is found here: http://spiritbabycomehome.wordpress.com/2014/09/15/one-lovely-blog-award/
lindseygendke says
Hey Kate! This is the first time I’ve been on your site for a long time. It looks great, and totally different from when I was last here! Very uplifting and energetic posts. You are doing a great job; God bless you in your blogging, mothering, freelancing, and all the other many things that take your time. Exciting to watch your blog develop and your story unfold, especially as a co-blog-starter in 2013! Blessings, friend!
Kate says
Lindsey!!! I’m so glad to hear from you!!! I consider you one of my very first blogging friends and kindred spirits! I caught up on your blog maybe a month or 2 ago (can’t remember if I commented – I hope I did…), but it was so good to read all you’ve been up to and I was so appreciative of your vulnerability in sharing all you’ve gone through in recent days and months…Yes, my blog is SO different from when I first started – and to be honest, I’m still trying to find the ‘sweet spot’ of what this is supposed to be…I really like doing the home-type stuff, but I’m trying to find a place for the writing/God type posts as well…on top of working around the little guys…you know what that’s like.!
Thank you so much for stopping back, Lindsey. You have no idea how much that means to me…those first days were so special. Looking forward to keeping up with your blog too. I think I need to update my email address – I think your posts go to an older one I don’t check as much. But I’ll update so I don’t miss anything new. Thanks again, friend! Looking forward to keeping up! xoxoxo
Jennifer Wolan says
Hi Kate,
My name is Jennifer Wolan and I am reaching out because my client, Kimberley Milousis recently released a course called Life More Abundantly and we would love to advertise the course on A Hundred Affections. Here is more information about the course: http://www.kimm.me/lma
Please let me know if this is something you are interested in and what the rates and media options are. I look forward to hearing from you!
Thank you,
Jennifer Wolan
Personal Assistant for Kimberley Milousis
847.730.9415
John says
It’s really great post.
Kate says
Thank you!