40+ Mother’s Day Gift Ideas She Really Wants
What gift would REALLY make moms happy – for her birthday, for Christmas, on Mother’s Day? Keep reading to get the inside scoop as to the perfect gift! It’s not just ‘things.’ Here’s a guide to meaningful and useful gifts for mom – what she would really love! We surveyed moms – you don’t want to miss this inside scoop!
Thoughtful Gifts for Mom (That Says She Wants Nothing)
Sometimes Mom can be the hardest person of all to choose a gift for. In some ways, it might be easy because I’m sure she’ll love just any gift from her family.
But in other ways, it can be really hard because you want it to be so special. So just what would be an amazing and perfect gift for Mom?
Well, there are a few ways you can go about this.
First, the best way to find out what your mom wants for her birthday, for Christmas, for Mother’s Day is to just ask her! I’m sure she can tell you in about .5 seconds flat what would really mean the most to her.
And if she tells you? Do not pass Go, do not collect $200 – just do it!!!
If you don’t want to go that route or maybe she’s more subtle or maybe you want to surprise her, well, continue reading.
Unique Gift Ideas for Mom That She Will Totally Love and Appreciate
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I did some crowdsourcing of my own in some Facebook groups and on my personal page, and the answers were overwhelmingly similar from mom to mom.
The same kinds of things just kept coming up over and over and over again. And, hint, hint – for the most part, they are NOT things. What moms really wants falls into a few categories, as you’ll see below.
1|Moms Want a Break
This might look different for every mom, but there were many commonalities. A mom does so much to keep a home functioning, to care for kids- both young and grown kids, and support Dad. Her job is never done. She rarely gets a day off. And if she has young kids, even a vacation is not a vacation.
Chances are, Mom is tired. A well-deserved break might be just what she needs and wants.
Here are some ideas, and if you are feeling generous, combine a few of them together and really ‘wow’ her. These are perfect for someone who doesn’t want a material gift:
Sleep
Let her sleep in. Let her take a nap. Give her a night in a hotel where she can wake up at her leisure. If she has littles, uninterrupted sleep with no alarm to wake her up would mean the universe to her.
A Clean House
Trust me on this one. A tired mom would like nothing better than for the family to clean the house top to bottom – vacuum, dust, bathrooms, laundry, change sheets, clean windows – the works.
It sounds so practical and unromantic, but she will think y’all are the most thoughtful family in the universe if you can make this happen. If you include cleaning her car in the deal, well, you can do no wrong.
A Day Off From Cooking
Whether she wants to go out to eat or you guys take care of the cooking in-house (and clean up after!), she would love, for one day, not to be responsible for feeding anyone else but herself.
Even better if you are responsible for feeding her.
Peace and Quiet
If there are still kids in the house, for one day, run interference and be the person who takes care of them. Be the referee. Be the go-to person they come to for help, for problems, for questions.
Let mom have the day off from being helper for all the humans in the house.
And if you can take the kiddos out of the house for a while (because we all know that moms have a hard time letting go and not micro- managing their little kingdoms and not listening with one ear the entire time), even better.
A Scheduled Day to Herself
It doesn’t have to take place on the actual special day, but plan a day where, from morning until night, everything is taken care of and mom is on her own – to shop, to sleep, to get lunch with friends, to spend a night in a hotel to take a bath and read a book uninterrupted.
Whatever.
Her choice.
Or maybe, take the kids out for the day and leave her in the house alone to sleep, binge watch and eat ice cream. She’d love it either way.
On this day, she is not in charge and can just be on her own.
2| Moms Want to Be Pampered
For moms, it’s hard to remember what it feels like to be that pretty girl back in the day. For her to know that she is still that woman inside, underneath the messy hair and stained clothes and tired eyes will do wonders for her well-being.
She wants to feel like a woman, not just a mom. The idea is that this kind of gift would really make her feel like a girl and something she probably would not spend money on herself. Here are some ways you can provide some pampering for mom:
A Manicure/Pedicure
A Massage
A Spa Day
A New Haircut/Color
A Foot Massage
A New Outfit and Shoes
A Facial
A Hair/Make-Up Session (even better if it’s before a date night!)
3| Moms Want Quality Time with Their Families
Maybe life is really hectic, and quality time together doesn’t happen too often. Mom might really be craving time together as a family (or couple). If she has been hinting at this – gently or maybe as subtle as a Mack truck, take the hint!
Plan something special as a family – or maybe just quality time with husband/wife, mother/son, mother/daughter, mother/grandkids.
Again – tune in to her. Chances are, she has been letting you what is important to her.
The key to this is that you need to take care of all the details and not make her do any of it! That’s part of the gift!!! Here are some suggestions:
A Dinner and Date Night with Dad (with the babysitter all taken care of)
A Family Brunch or Meal Out Together
A Family Hike
A Fun Day at Home with the Kids
A Weekend Away with the Family
A Family Day at an Amusement Park
A Picnic in the Park
A Fun Family Activity (Zoo, Paintball, City Trip, Baseball Game)
A Mother/Daughter Date
A Mother/Son Date
4| Mom May Want an Actual Gift
OK, some moms actually want a gift! Totally fine!
Moms typically put themselves last, so this is a great time to get her something she’s been wanting.
Maybe she’s been eyeing a new camera or a tablet or an Instant Pot or a power tool (don’t laugh – my sisters love them!) or a new purse.
Again, if you aren’t sure what, ask her! I bet she would much rather forego the surprise than to get a token gift she really didn’t want (unless the surprise is what she wants!).
If you do want to go the surprise route and come up with something special, here are some gift ideas that are a little out of the box and would likely make her really happy!
A Family Photo Shoot (or a Mom and Me Photo Shoot)
A Subscription Box
There are so many amazing subscription boxes for all budgets to choose from on Amazon! Wellness, beauty, self-care… you can find something right up her alley!
A Gift Card to Her Favorite Store
(I know that sounds generic, but most women love to shop, so it’s like 2 gifts in 1! Include a babysitter as part of the gift? 3 gifts in 1!)
Uncommon Goods
Uncommon Goods is one of my favorite places to shop for you unique gift. They are thoughtful, original, creative, and my first go-to when I really want to find something extra special.
With categories like gardening, reading, cooking, crafting, jewelry, wellness, accessories, clothing, home decor, uncommon experiences (!!!), I guarantee you’ll find something special.
A Canvas of Her Favorite Family Picture
A personalized canvas of one of her favorite photos is a stellar choice!
This is a fantastic online program of all sorts of creative classes such as photography, crafts, music, art, design, etc. This is PERFECT for the mom who wants to reinvent herself or needs a creative outlet.
Mother’s Ring
Amazon has many beautiful selections of affordable Mother’s Rings – with birthstone and names.
A Gym Membership or Fitness Class
(Tread lightly here! Make sure this is something she really wants or it might be taken the wrong way!)
A Cooking Class
Or other class she would love- painting, photography, etc. The key is that it is something she would enjoy!
A Paint Party Night with Friends
A Shopping Spree
A Scrapbook
(Already filled up, not one for her to make!)
Photo Album or Custom Photo Gift
A Custom Family Cookbook
This is a great project to gather all of the family recipes and create a book for her to preserve them all! You can see the details of how I made my own family cookbook here!
All the Sweets
If mom has a sweet tooth, you need to give a Sugar Wish gift... she’ll be able to pick out the sweets she wants – cookies, candy, popcorn, etc. and trust me, it is sooooo good! There are also keto and gluten-free options as well!
All the Crafts
If she’s crafty, these craft kits come with everything gorgeously label and prepared – perfect for a relaxing afternoon that you give her!
Flowers and a Heartfelt Card
With more than just your signature! A meaningful note will mean the world.
A Perfect Gift for the Mom Who Works So Hard
Ok, there you go! I know you love and appreciate mom and all she does for your family.
Finding a way to show her just how special she is to you would send her over the moon.
Moms – You are AMAZING
Moms, we all know it’s not about the gifts or grand gestures. My hope is that, by the end of the day, you feel loved and appreciated, no matter how fumbled those attempts of showing it might be.
And, we all know that whether your birthday or Christmas or Mother’s Day is a huge success or a bigger mess for us to clean up, we will continue to be the bests moms we know how to be, thanks, or no thanks. Because that’s just what moms do.
Grab Free Mother’s Day Tags Here!
You can use these free printable tags with any of the above gifts! Just fill out the box below and you’ll be immediately redirected to the download. For best results, print on cardstock.
Crafty Mother’s Day Ideas from the Kids
Handmade DIY gifts are really special, especially from the kids.
If you are working to help get a gift together for a grandma or other special mom from the kids, check out these Mother’s Day Crafts for Grandma (some generic ideas in there, too!) and 25 Free Printable Mother’s Day Crafts – Cards and Gifts She’ll Love!
If you have toddlers and need some toddler-specific crafts for Mother’s Day, here are 35 Completely Precious Mother’s Day Crafts for Toddlers!
Happy Mother’s Day to all you special moms! Hope your day is amazing!
Thoughts? I’d love to hear them! Leave a comment below!
